Honoring the Life and Legacy of
Molly Roth Hamaker
Obituary
Molly Roth Hamaker, 68, died at home surrounded by her loving family on February 4, 2022, in Oak Park, IL. She lived in Walnut Creek, CA, for 35 years before moving her multigenerational household cross-country to Illinois last year, despite the pandemic and her struggle with pancreatic cancer.
Molly led a dynamic life, balancing family, work, friends and community involvement. Motivated to make the world a better place, especially for her children and grandchildren, Molly applied her remarkable energy, smarts, initiative, and gift of the gab to worthy projects both big and small. She placed a high priority on the people in her life, connecting readily and forming many lasting friendships over the years. Molly will be missed by all who knew her and remembered for her generosity, kindness and sense of a greater good.
Born in 1953 in Kansas City, KS, Molly also spent many childhood summers in Brooklyn, NY, with her grandparents. In 1969, at age 16, she went away to Webster College in St. Louis, MO. After marrying in 1971, she moved with her first husband, Dave, to Lawrence, KS, where daughters Dawn and Alita were born. In 1983 she married Charlie Hamaker, and two years later, following the birth of daughter Irene, the family moved to Walnut Creek, CA, where son Zach was born.
A natural collaborator and leader, she was just 21 years old in 1974 when she co-founded and became the first manager of the Community Mercantile, a cooperative natural foods grocery store and local institution still operating in Lawrence today. She was a work collective member until her departure from the co-op in 1982.
In between working and raising four kids, Molly continued to pursue her college degree. She graduated with a BA in 1990, on the same day her oldest daughter graduated from high school. She went on to earn an MA in educational psychology in 2002, the same year her youngest daughter graduated from high school.
Molly practiced as a school psychologist only briefly, but her interest in education was long-standing. As a parent she had been involved in alternative elementary school programs in Kansas in the 1970s as a founding board member for the Lawrence Open School and in California in the 1990s as an early participant and board president at Parkmead Active Learning School (PALS) in Walnut Creek.
In 2006, Molly entered the mental health field as a founding board member of Putnam Clubhouse, a community-based program for adults recovering from serious mental illness. Inspired by her first-hand experience with the lack of resources available to families and their loved ones suffering from mental illness, she served as executive director for much of her time with the Clubhouse until her retirement in 2019.
While her community impact was extensive, Molly’s primary work for more than 25 years was as an independent business development consultant, focusing on small organizations and individuals whose missions she admired. Her interest in food and wellness continued into her California years where she promoted farmer’s markets, worked professionally with Frances Moore Lappé and Mollie Katzen (two of her early food heroes), and co-founded and sold the online store Natural Candy Store with two of her daughters.
Molly relished her memories of hitchhiking through Europe as a teenager. When her children were older, she traveled extensively with Charlie, prioritizing locales where she could indulge in her love of snorkeling. She also enjoyed seeking out vegan restaurants in the cities she visited around the world.
Molly will be dearly missed by her devoted husband of 38 years, Charlie; children Dawn, Alita, Irene and Zach; granddaughters Frankie and Dora; brother Clifford; and half-sisters Sara and Elisheva. She was preceded in death by her parents, Bobbie and George, and her brother Donald.
A virtual Celebration of Life was held on March 6, 2022. For more information and to share memories, please see below.
Virtual Celebration of Life
& Online Reception
Recorded Sunday, March 6, 2022
The Hamaker family invites you to view the virtual Celebration of Life Service & Reception honoring Molly’s life and legacy.
The Virtual Celebration of Life for
David Leon Sheets
Recorded Feb 26, 2021
Goodness of God - David Sheets Memorial Choir
This song embodies the way David Sheets lived his life. In every situation, no matter the difficulty, he would proclaim God’s goodness.
David Sheets lived a life devoted to Jesus. He spent the majority of his career as a music minister & choir director in churches around the US. The Sheets family put out a call for anyone who had served with David to join a virtual choir in his honor. What you see here is just a small picture of his legacy impact on the Kingdom of God. We pray this song blesses you and encourages you today.
In Lieu Of Flowers Please Consider Donating:
Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (PanCAN)
This is the organization Molly turned to for guidance during her difficult journey. In addition to providing patient services, PanCAN funds critical research and advocacy in the fight against pancreatic cancer.
Note: An annual fundraising walk called “Move for Molly” is being organized by Molly’s cousins in honor of her birthday in June. It’s a virtual event so folks can walk when and where convenient. More info to come. The button below takes you to her page where you can donate anytime to contribute to the fundraising goal.
Was glad Molly and I reconnected after being out of touch, for decades; and am grateful we got to talk a few weeks before she died. We shared stories of our youth and, more importantly, I got to tell her what she meant to me, especially her fortitude, which is evidenced in her well-knit family, which she nurtured and loved more than anything. Her memory is a blessing.
Sending you all so much love, prayers and light. Your mom was an incredible woman that raised amazing children.
Cool things that I will forever be grateful for:
Much love to the entire family who are beautiful, kind, grounded, briliant, strong, supportive, make the world a better place people.
Thank you for making this world better than it was when you came in. You really did make a difference and I’m thankful for you. May the ancestors welcome you with open arms. I know that there is a lot of dancing and joy.
Love you, family.
Tonya & Donald
Dear Molly, you were my friend and I was yours.
Molly was like the big sister I never had. At the family gathering for the holidays we would play and I would love having sleep overs. Molly always had a smile and made me feel important. Molly, we miss you deeply! Much love and prayers to all the family and friends.
Molly had such a joyous and giving spirit. She was like a second mom to me-always encouraging and inspiring me to go after my dreams. Her enthusiasm for life and her love of good food, her family, adventure and ideas -big and small was infectious. May her laughter, open arms and witty ways live on. Love and big hugs to all of you.
Thank you Molly ♡
Molly was a gift to all of us at Putnam Clubhouse. I will always treasure the years we worked together to form the Clubhouse as team Ta-Molly. Molly was my mentor, my advocate, my friend. She always believed in my potential and helped me to reach it. Molly we will always remember you and will be grateful to you for helping our community.
Molly was a gift to all who knew her. I feel fortunate to have been connected to her and her wonderful family through my cousin, Charlie, her husband. What a loss! But I am sure, once she rests a bit, she will make a very powerful contribution in her new life on the other side!
We are so terribly sad. Molly had such a deep intellect and shining Spirit, she was funny and kind. She leaves a legacy of love and good. We send our love to the Hamaker Family.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending condolences and love to Dawn, Alita and the whole Hamaker family.
Marie Coleman
Dear Hamaker Family – We just heard and are so sorry for your loss. We have very fond memories of our old friends and neighbors in Walnut Creek..
We are so sorry to hear of Molly’s death and send condolences to Dawn, Alita and the entire family. Love to you all from Tom and Janet Coleman.
Just got word that Molly Roth-Van Hee-Hamaker passed away today at her home with her family. She had pancreatic cancer. Molly was a close friend at Webster College, which she started in fall 1969 at the age of 16. Didn’t turn 17 until June. She was whip-smart, pretty and a lot of fun. Molly is survived by husband Charlie, children Dawn and Alita (by her first husband Dave Van Hee), Irene and Zak, and several grandchildren.
In the spring of 1970, I was kind of burned out on the late-night partying scene at Webster and became involved in a social circle that included Dave Van Hee, Molly Roth, David Young, Belinda Houk, Dick Winchell, Claire Swarz and Annie Raphael. It was a welcome respite from too much decadence and I look back at that group with fond memories.
It’s been many years since I last saw Molly. I have fond memories of Molly and her tribe. She was a kind, caring person and will be dearly missed. On to the next and unknown adventure sweet woman. You left way too soon.
Molly was such a light, I feel so lucky to have known her. She enriched the lives of everyone she met. She lived and loved so fiercely and so gently at the same time. My heart aches for the world, especially her family. May her memory live on forever. Holding you all close in love and light. Rest well, Dear Molly. We miss you so.
I was Molly’s acupuncturist in Oak Park, IL, and she became a friend. I adored her. I am very inspired by her incredibly rich life and her positive spirit, and I will carry the lessons she taught me with me forever. I know her family meant absolutely everything to her, and my thoughts and prayers are with her beloved husband, children, and grandchildren & friends and wider family circle at this sorrowful time. Rest in peace, dear, brave, beautiful Molly.
You made a world of difference and impacted so many lives Molly with helping to start Putnam Clubhouse. I truly enjoyed working with you. Your perseverance, resiliency and brilliance helped to build a community that will serve as a legacy for years to come. Anyone who had the good fortune to know you was a better person for it, me included. Thank you.
We will miss you Molly. We had so much fun working together planning Jerry Brown’s radio show.
We are so sorry for your deep loss. She will continue to be an inspiration to all of us.
The McVicar Family
I love you and miss you mom!