Honoring the Life and Legacy of

Molly Roth Hamaker

June 1, 1953 – Feb 4, 2022

Obituary

Molly Roth Hamaker, 68, died at home surrounded by her loving family on February 4, 2022, in Oak Park, IL. She lived in Walnut Creek, CA, for 35 years before moving her multigenerational household cross-country to Illinois last year, despite the pandemic and her struggle with pancreatic cancer.

Molly led a dynamic life, balancing family, work, friends and community involvement. Motivated to make the world a better place, especially for her children and grandchildren, Molly applied her remarkable energy, smarts, initiative, and gift of the gab to worthy projects both big and small. She placed a high priority on the people in her life, connecting readily and forming many lasting friendships over the years. Molly will be missed by all who knew her and remembered for her generosity, kindness and sense of a greater good.

Born in 1953 in Kansas City, KS, Molly also spent many childhood summers in Brooklyn, NY, with her grandparents. In 1969, at age 16, she went away to Webster College in St. Louis, MO. After marrying in 1971, she moved with her first husband, Dave, to Lawrence, KS, where daughters Dawn and Alita were born. In 1983 she married Charlie Hamaker, and two years later, following the birth of daughter Irene, the family moved to Walnut Creek, CA, where son Zach was born.

A natural collaborator and leader, she was just 21 years old in 1974 when she co-founded and became the first manager of the Community Mercantile, a cooperative natural foods grocery store and local institution still operating in Lawrence today. She was a work collective member until her departure from the co-op in 1982.

In between working and raising four kids, Molly continued to pursue her college degree. She graduated with a BA in 1990, on the same day her oldest daughter graduated from high school. She went on to earn an MA in educational psychology in 2002, the same year her youngest daughter graduated from high school.

Molly practiced as a school psychologist only briefly, but her interest in education was long-standing. As a parent she had been involved in alternative elementary school programs in Kansas in the 1970s as a founding board member for the Lawrence Open School and in California in the 1990s as an early participant and board president at Parkmead Active Learning School (PALS) in Walnut Creek.

In 2006, Molly entered the mental health field as a founding board member of Putnam Clubhouse, a community-based program for adults recovering from serious mental illness. Inspired by her first-hand experience with the lack of resources available to families and their loved ones suffering from mental illness, she served as executive director for much of her time with the Clubhouse until her retirement in 2019.

While her community impact was extensive, Molly’s primary work for more than 25 years was as an independent business development consultant, focusing on small organizations and individuals whose missions she admired. Her interest in food and wellness continued into her California years where she promoted farmer’s markets, worked professionally with Frances Moore Lappé and Mollie Katzen (two of her early food heroes), and co-founded and sold the online store Natural Candy Store with two of her daughters.

Molly relished her memories of hitchhiking through Europe as a teenager. When her children were older, she traveled extensively with Charlie, prioritizing locales where she could indulge in her love of snorkeling. She also enjoyed seeking out vegan restaurants in the cities she visited around the world.

Molly will be dearly missed by her devoted husband of 38 years, Charlie; children Dawn, Alita, Irene and Zach; granddaughters Frankie and Dora; brother Clifford; and half-sisters Sara and Elisheva. She was preceded in death by her parents, Bobbie and George, and her brother Donald.

A virtual Celebration of Life was held on March 6, 2022. For more information and to share memories, please see below.

Virtual Celebration of Life
& Online Reception

Recorded Sunday, March 6, 2022

The Hamaker family invites you to view the virtual Celebration of Life Service & Reception honoring Molly’s life and legacy.

The Virtual Celebration of Life for David Leon Sheets
Recorded Feb 26, 2021

Goodness of God - David Sheets Memorial Choir

This song embodies the way David Sheets lived his life. In every situation, no matter the difficulty, he would proclaim God’s goodness.

David Sheets lived a life devoted to Jesus. He spent the majority of his career as a music minister & choir director in churches around the US. The Sheets family put out a call for anyone who had served with David to join a virtual choir in his honor. What you see here is just a small picture of his legacy impact on the Kingdom of God. We pray this song blesses you and encourages you today.

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In Lieu Of Flowers Please Consider Donating:
Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (PanCAN)

This is the organization Molly turned to for guidance during her difficult journey. In addition to providing patient services, PanCAN funds critical research and advocacy in the fight against pancreatic cancer.

Note: An annual fundraising walk called “Move for Molly” is being organized by Molly’s cousins in honor of her birthday in June. It’s a virtual event so folks can walk when and where convenient. More info to come. The button below takes you to her page where you can donate anytime to contribute to the fundraising goal.

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Deborah Fruchey & Robert Hamaker
2 years ago

We found the service so beautiful and loved to hear of all Molly’s many dynamic accomplishments. Her friends & family spoke movingly of her, and we are happy we were able to be there. Thank you! Be sure to visit us any time you come back to Walnut Creek!

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Diane Luber
2 years ago

To be of useBy Marge Piercy

The people I love the best
jump into work head first
without dallying in the shallows
and swim off with sure strokes almost out of sight.
They seem to become natives of that element,
the black sleek heads of seals
bouncing like half-submerged balls.

I love people who harness themselves, an ox to a heavy cart,
who pull like water buffalo, with massive patience,
who strain in the mud and the muck to move things forward,
who do what has to be done, again and again.

I want to be with people who submerge
in the task, who go into the fields to harvest
and work in a row and pass the bags along,
who are not parlor generals and field deserters
but move in a common rhythm
when the food must come in or the fire be put out.

The work of the world is common as mud.
Botched, it smears the hands, crumbles to dust.
But the thing worth doing well done
has a shape that satisfies, clean and evident.
Greek amphoras for wine or oil,
Hopi vases that held corn, are put in museums
but you know they were made to be used.
The pitcher cries for water to carry
and a person for work that is real.

Marge Piercy, “To be of use” from Circles on the Water. Copyright © 1982 by Marge Piercy. Used by permission of Alfred A. Knopf, an imprint of the Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, a division of Random House LLC. All rights reserved.
Source: Circles on the Water: Selected Poems of Marge Piercy (Alfred A. Knopf, 1982)

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